Tackling the Kissing Urban myth

DISCLAIMER TO SENSITIVE: go no further if exploring the "who is better at kissing urban myth" easily offends ones sensibilities!

The Wesley Snipes/ Woody Harrelson film stated that White Men Can't Jump, and this might be true but one thing I know is that they sure know how to kiss- boy oh boy!

I might not be an equal opportunity dater quite yet (I am still attempting to open those dating borders), but I am most certainly an equal opportunity kisser. In my 31 years, I have only kissed 7 guys- I was a slow starter so sue me.

Out of the 7 men, 4 of them where white guys, who where definetely the better kissers. My experience thus far has led to the conclusion that so far some (stressing on the some) black guys, who where complete adonis', kissed like over excited puppies- ewwww!

What has baffled me about the snogging sessions that I had with the lucky buggers (yeah I said they where the lucky ones), is that why, oh why where the black guys i kissed either so-so or really bad yet when it came to the white guys all i can say is "wow". My question to you is, is it really a race thing or is it luck of the draw?

I have posed this question to a friend of mine who is a quite the connoisseur of all types of men. I am sure she holds a PhD in sexual satisfaction. As an equal opportunity dater whose experience knows no bounds I knew her answer to to this question would be an interesting one. Her response was that in her experience, black men were better at sex than the white guys and so therefore do not try so hard at the kissing, whilst white men are so-so at the sex but have the kissing hands down. She also added with a smirk, that ugly guys always try harder to please in bed than the pretty boys who expect you to do all the work. So for a good satisfying session one should always go ugly. My response was "oh!"

Another friend added her 10cents by confirming that she agrees that white men are better kissers. She is in her first relationship with a white guy (she has decided to look further a field for some male companionship) and she said she is amazed that his kisses take her to the moon and back. When I asked her about the sex she said "we are working on it".

I conclude that although my best kiss was with a white guy- BTW his kisses made me float into the land of great kisses- I do believe that whoever i fall in love with , it will be my love for him that will make me walk on clouds and give my the butterflies (smile).

On another note let me add as much as I love a good snog (whenver I can get one- blush), I would take Reggie Bush on whether or not he is a good kisser. Who am I kidding, a guy that scrumptious must be able to perform tongue acrobatics that you leaving wanting more (sigh).

My Reggie Bush obsession continues.

LSGS