Seeking ones soul mate is a terribly exhausting job, but the balm is the good friends that I surround myself with. I must say that good friends are the hard to come by, especially the older you get. They are the foundation that holds you together whilst you make your way through the sea of unsuitable men. Besides my beloved sister, who is my heart in many ways, I have a collection of core friends who I truly love. They are the ones who love me with all my faults.
Among them is that one friend who is my BFF. She is the one who plots the death of the man who broke your heart, the one who helps you abuse your credit card limit on shopping trips, the one who you share a bottle of wine and nibbles with whilst watching a chick flick and she’s the one whose company completes you in every way. It is with a friend like this that you know you can withstand the heart ache, tears, and happiness that a man can bring to your life.
Now at 30 I am surprised to be finding myself having the same "then there was one" moment as suffered publically by Lauren Conrad and Heidi Montag of the Hills fame. The BFF I once had is no more. Our 10 year friendship ended without as much as a backward glance- which was the heartbreak of all heartbreaks.
It has now left just me, myself and I for company, as I continue to wonder around the city of Singleton alone searching for Mister Right, but sometimes settling for Mister Right now.
Lauren Conrad and Heidi Montag from the Hills, once Best friends now frenemies- I am defintely team Lauren!
Among them is that one friend who is my BFF. She is the one who plots the death of the man who broke your heart, the one who helps you abuse your credit card limit on shopping trips, the one who you share a bottle of wine and nibbles with whilst watching a chick flick and she’s the one whose company completes you in every way. It is with a friend like this that you know you can withstand the heart ache, tears, and happiness that a man can bring to your life.
Now at 30 I am surprised to be finding myself having the same "then there was one" moment as suffered publically by Lauren Conrad and Heidi Montag of the Hills fame. The BFF I once had is no more. Our 10 year friendship ended without as much as a backward glance- which was the heartbreak of all heartbreaks.
It has now left just me, myself and I for company, as I continue to wonder around the city of Singleton alone searching for Mister Right, but sometimes settling for Mister Right now.
Lauren Conrad and Heidi Montag from the Hills, once Best friends now frenemies- I am defintely team Lauren!
LSGS
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